Ben Stiller names the film he lost in the 1990s that still “haunts” him
The One That Still Haunts Ben Stiller
Ben Stiller—a beloved comedic force and acclaimed filmmaker—recently opened up about one unexpected moment in his career that he admits still lingers in his mind: he “tanked” his audition for the 1992 classic My Cousin Vinny. Speaking during a Q&A panel for Severance, the Apple TV+ series he directs, Stiller shared: “I tanked my audition for My Cousin Vinny. It still haunts me to this day.”(The Independent)
That fateful callback was reportedly for the role of Bill Gambini—the cousin in legal hot water—with Ralph Macchio ultimately getting the part.(The Independent, thevintagenews) Though a small part in the grand tapestry of his career, Stiller’s admission shines a light on how vivid—even fleeting—moments can endure in an actor’s memory.
Despite this missed opportunity, Stiller went on to shape the ’90s comedy landscape in remarkable ways. He directed Reality Bites (1994), helmed the darkly hilarious The Cable Guy (1996), and delivered breakout performances in films like Flirting with Disaster and There’s Something About Mary.(The Independent, Far Out Magazine)
Still, the lingering regret over that failed audition speaks to something deeply human: the “what ifs” that echo long after the spotlight moves on. Today, Stiller is celebrated for his versatility—not just in front of the camera, but behind it, too—from comedy classics to acclaimed direction in shows like Severance.
In the end, even legends feel the weight of one missed chance. And that candid confession? It reminds us all that success isn’t always about what you get—but sometimes what you narrowly miss.