HE IS the “cute guy” she’s been dating for about a month.
But one woman was so annoyed by her “bad” dressing and lack of skills in her bedroom that she was taken to Mumsnet to question whether she should “finish it now.” now” or try to change him.
“Meet a lovely guy, have only been dating for about a month,” she began.
“He’s funny, kind, honest, honest, generous. But he’s not good in bed and his taste in clothes is terrible.
“Can these things be changed?” she asked. “Or do you think I should finish it now?”
People flocked to the comments section to react to the woman, with one posting: “Well, maybe he dumped you because your clothes are so bad? How about you being shallow?”
Another commented: “Well if he’s a nice guy both his dressing sense & lack of sex knowledge can be improved as long as he’s willing to improve.
“If he’s fit for a clothes shopping trip and some real sex education from yourself then you’ve got a goalkeeper there. But if he thinks he’s as perfect as he is then bin .
“This comes from experience but unfortunately I didn’t heed my own advice all these years ago and I picked the wrong person.”
The third suggests that although a woman can try and change her partner, she shouldn’t.
“Imagine how you would feel if a new boyfriend sat down and said, ‘I’d love to keep seeing you, but your clothes don’t match what I like. I want you to change the way you look. dress'”, they wrote.
“I would feel resentful and uncomfortable. If you notice his taste in clothes, why go on a date with him in the first place?”
“One of my friends changed her terrible dress code to now DHs (dear husband) by buying him new clothes for his birthday and Christmas and making suggestions. when they go shopping together,” another added.
“She ended up coming to him and he thought it was funny so I guess it depends on how sensitive he is to it.”
Another suggested the feeling could be mutual, writing: “This guy is probably sitting in a pub with his friend right now and says to his friend: I met a good woman, Ms. She’s fun to be around, but she’s also very shallow and it keeps me from really having sex.
“Whether I should dump her or not tell her now, unless she can change her shallow attitude towards a life of no relation.”
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https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/17022475/woman-asks-if-she-should-dump-boyfriend/ Woman asks if she should dump her ‘great’ boyfriend because he’s ugly in bed and has no taste in clothes…but everyone says HE should hit her