My boyfriend had sex with his dying boyfriend – and I’m jealous

Her “last wish” was to get laid.

One woman further Reddit revealed that her boyfriend cheated on her with his terminally ill boyfriend because it was her last wish.

“I can’t express my jealousy because she’s dead anyway,” she scoffed. “It was probably something like she didn’t want to die a virgin.”

Although the friend reportedly passed away in March 2022, the friend cannot get over her partner’s betrayal.

“I hate myself because I get angry inside when he mentions them,” she continued. “I don’t even know who initiated it.”

“My boyfriend and I had never had sex back then.”

She found out about the affair, which took place in 2021, when a mutual friend revealed the truth. The couple committed the crime during a group trip with friends, which the friend did not want to attend. She admits she didn’t go on the trip, “biting me in the night.”

The friend was jealous and was cheated on by her boyfriend because he agreed to the sick friend’s request.
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Although she was shocked by the revelation, she knew the sexual encounter was not romantic because “he was never attracted to her” but the boyfriend “had a secret crush on him.”

“They had completely emotional sex because of her condition,” she added.

Tired of hiding her feelings, she confronted her lover about the cheating accusation and he confessed.

“He only did it because of their platonic relationship and her impending death,” she explained. “Under any other circumstances he wouldn’t have done it.”

Although the couple have been together for over three years, her boyfriend had difficulty revealing what he had done for fear of losing his girlfriend.

“He didn’t tell me because he didn’t know how I would react and was afraid I would dump him,” she said. “He didn’t want to hurt me.”

Aside from this situation, she claims he was a good partner even when he was at his lowest.

After forgiving her partner, the couple plans to work on repairing their relationship. She reveals that her boyfriend is committed to “earning her trust back” while she agrees to “work on things.”

However, she finds it difficult to comfort her unfaithful boyfriend, who is still mourning the loss of the friend he cheated on her with.

“I think it’s so messed up that one of the dying girl’s dreams was to sleep with him,” she says. “Maybe she just didn’t care because she was going to leave us anyway. I’m still conflicted.”

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Her boyfriend admitted that it wasn’t romantic and only did it because the girlfriend was dying.
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Meanwhile, her boyfriend claims, “If he could, he would have asked me for permission” but “felt guilty for not fulfilling his girlfriend’s wish when she died.”

Other Reddit readers think their boyfriend got off the hook too easily for his devious antics.

“Dude what? I would do many things for a dying friend’s final request, but disrespecting my relationship and cheating to give him one last thrill is out of the question,” one person commented.

“I don’t think he’s as innocent as you are trying to brainwash yourself into thinking,” another added.

“He had an opportunity, took it, and then regretted it, like most scammers do,” agreed one reader.

Caroline Bleakley

Caroline Bleakley is a USTimeToday U.S. News Reporter based in London. His focus is on U.S. politics and the environment. He has covered climate change extensively, as well as healthcare and crime. Caroline Bleakley joined USTimeToday in 2022 from the Daily Express and previously worked for Chemist and Druggist and the Jewish Chronicle. He is a graduate of Cambridge University. Languages: English. You can get in touch with Caroline Bleakley by emailing

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