I used to be a feminist but now I’m a good wife.

A woman who admits she was once a ‘famous feminist’ has revealed how she gave up her beliefs to become a decent wife.

Rebecca Barrett, used to work as a high-flying engineer in New York but now, she loves nothing more than preparing dinner for her husband as she revealed in a recent YouTube video.

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The mother revealed that while growing up in a traditional family, she quickly pursued feminist beliefs after being “unmasked as unfaithful”.

Speaking in the video, she explains: “I learned very little about infidelity and that’s what shaped me as a feminist woman.

“When I was in high school and in college, I wanted to be an independent woman

I didn’t want to rely on a man’s income but I wanted to have my own so I decided to go the engineering route.”

She worked as a petroleum engineer before moving to New York to start her first company.

Rebecca continued: “New York is where feminism started to infiltrate me and I adopted a lot of ideology.

“But the more masculine I became, the less happy I became, the more resentful I became, and the more I liked fighting and competing.

“It’s exhausting, I’m constantly fighting my feminine energy with my masculine energy

“I was miserable, I always questioned why I couldn’t be more aggressive or competitive – I was at my breaking point.

“I feel like I’ve accomplished a lot and I’ve lived a very single life because I resent men and I don’t like being with men.”

But Rebecca begins to have a new perspective when she meets her husband – but things don’t go well.

“The more I worked on myself, the more I realized that I was creating a lot of problems in our relationship,” she said.

“I would get upset with him about things he didn’t even know he was doing.”

The couple decided to attend a pre-marital counseling session, where Rebecca was reintroduced to a more traditional approach to marriage.

“This has taught us the role of a wife and a husband,” she said.

“I realized that I still have a lot of ‘feminist thinking’. I realized that if I wanted to be a wife, I needed to take on the role.

“A wife submits to her husband and my husband takes the lead in our relationship.”

I was his co-pilot but at the end of the day he made the final decision.

Rebecca Barrett

The wife was quick to dispel any misconceptions people might have about being ‘submissive’.

She said: “Women think that being submissive means a man can pass you by, but being submissive means having to trust your husband’s decision-making skills.

“If you have that ability, rely on your husband and let him do the housework.

“I’m his co-pilot but at the end of the day he will make the final decision.”

In addition to her submissive role in the relationship, Rebecca also takes time each day to take the best care of her husband.

She added: “I make sure I look good on my husband because I want him to want me – I don’t want him to look outside the house.

“It’s refreshing when you have a masculine man who can take on his masculine form and then I can transition into my feminine form and we can complement each other rather than compete. “.

To learn more, visit Rebecca’s Instagram Page

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