I refuse to walk my daughter down the aisle with her stepmother

A man has revealed he refuses to walk his daughter down the aisle – because she wants him to do the same to her stepdaughter.

Posting on Reddit, the bride’s father explained that his 22-year-old daughter is getting married soon – and wanted to include her dad as well.

A father has revealed that he refuses to walk his stepdaughter down the aisle because she wants to include her stepfather


A father has revealed that he refuses to walk his stepdaughter down the aisle because she wants to include her stepfatherCredit: Getty

The bride’s stepmother married her mother when she was 5 years old, and her father admitted “because of circumstances I couldn’t be with her for long”.

He only reconnected with his daughter when she was 16 – but is now insisting she choose between him and her other father.

The man explained: “Her mother always threw in my face that (my daughter’s) stepfather was the ‘real/legal parent” and always has been to (my daughter).

“But she knew about the bond I had with (my daughter) or the things I went through in the past so I ignored her judgmental remarks.”

The daughter is getting married in February, but her plans have caused friction in the family.

Her father said: “I was brought back when she told me she was considering letting me AND her stepmother walk her down the aisle.

“I went to talk to her to talk about how uncomfortable I was with this opinion.

“She talked about how important her uncle was in her life, and she wanted to honor that by including him.

“I told her of course and I absolutely wouldn’t devalue her feelings or deny her stepfather’s good influence but, I just feel uncomfortable with it.

“I told her it would be okay if I was just a guest there, but she said she wanted me to be a part of this mess.

“I said it was me or her stepmother because there’s no way I’d do this to him.

“She thinks it’s petty but it’s not, she angrily says it’s not okay for me to put her in this position and force her to choose and force herself but really, choice It’s hers, so how do I rape your hand?

“She complained about me ruining her wedding and said it about my resentment towards her stepdaughter.

“The argument escalated to the point where I said I wouldn’t come to the wedding if she continued to force the matter.”

The absent father was brought online, as he revealed he only returned to her life six years ago


The absent father was brought online, as he revealed he only returned to her life six years agoCredit: Reddit

The disagreement escalated, with the father continuing: “Her mother contacted me calling me selfish, jealous, harsh and didn’t say that I was willing to hurt (our daughter’s) feelings. me) despite just because she dared to show appreciation for the man I stepped up to and became a parent to her more than ever.”

Now his daughter doesn’t call him back and her fiancé tells the father “she is upset by the fact that I put my feelings above hers and disrespected her stepmother.” by asking her to choose between us.

“He advised me to do this one thing for her because it was important but I feel uncomfortable even thinking about it so I don’t think I’ll be okay with it.”

People were left devastated for the bride in the comments, especially as she was clearly trying to mend their relationship.

Many people believe that her “baby” father does not deserve the honor of attending the wedding party.

One wrote: “She’s 22 and he came back to her life when she was 16. Dude I wouldn’t invite you to my wedding even if you were biologically my father. Goodbye, Felicia!”

While a second said: “I can hardly call him father. He just walked in”.

And a third wrote: “Notice how a hole** can eliminate the detail of why he’s AWOL for sixteen years…”

Another commenter predicted: “It sounds like Chloe’s trash is dumping itself out.”

And a fifth added: “I liked 3 sentences before I was like ‘yeah, you’re a sh*tty dad.”

One commented: “Anyone with half a brain knows that if you don’t raise your kids, you won’t be the first to choose for all the ‘jobs’ of parenting later on.

“It was good to be invited and considered for that role.

“However, there’s always this one asshole who thinks they can go back and do all the ‘fun’, like showing off what a wonderful daughter someone else raised.”

While the moment quipped: “Given the way this**hole works, I’m surprised she even allowed him back into his life at 16.

“He gave up his rights to her because the stepfather is a ‘legitimate’ parent. This guy doesn’t deserve his daughter. I hope she’s okay and can cut him off. right now. He clearly just sees her as some kind of trophy.” “

And a third said: “Poor (daughter) has probably agonized for weeks about how she can include both father and stepmother because she values ​​relationship building again. his relationship with his biological father.

“She should accept his initial offer, have her stepfather walk her down the aisle and have her biological father as a guest. If he doesn’t want to share, he won’t get any.”

Yesterday, A bride has revealed how she didn’t invite her grandson from her wedding because he will take his eyes off her.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/17487513/refuse-walk-daughter-down-aisle-stepdad-choose/ I refuse to walk my daughter down the aisle with her stepmother

Huynh Nguyen

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