I have sex on first dates to get the awkward part out of the way
“You miss 100% of the ‘layers’ you never do.”
These wise words of wisdom come from an OnlyFans model who has one important rule when it comes to dating: Always have sex on the first date.
The social media influencer, who goes by the name Kazumi, likes to take action to “get the awkwardness out of the way” at the start of a future relationship.
The 25-year-old told NeedToKnow.online that many men love her “direct” approach to dating.
The adult content creator, who claims to make $250,000 a month, revealed her strict Christian upbringing has pushed her to be more sex-positive in her daily life.
Despite being “pretty nerdy” when she was younger, she “desperately wanted to get laid,” but her parents reportedly wouldn’t allow her to go on dates. And while Kazumi wished she could find a boyfriend, as a teenager she felt too socially awkward — and boys at her school thought she was “strange.”
“I’ve turned to the internet and chatted with strangers online via webcam, which is probably why I love having sex with guys on OnlyFans so much,” she told the outlet.
The Miami resident stays safe, uses protection and is tested regularly to ensure the safety of herself and her partners on dates.
She noted that some of the “most amazing first dates” she’s ever had were when she had sex and then had a more enjoyable experience hanging out with the guy afterwards because, as she explained, “we’re both relaxed and the sexual.” Tension is common.”
“I want to remove the stigma associated with having a large number of sexual partners,” Kazumi continued. “Like, who cares?”
She said that men appreciate her “directness because they find that many women are not very open or confident about their sexuality.”
However, Kazumi pointed out that some dates are initially surprised, with some thinking she’s “a slut — which is hypocritical,” she said.
“I date mature men, and I feel like being honest and being upfront about my needs is a great way to convey the idea that I’m confident,” she added. “I know what I want early on in the relationship and if I spot any stupidity, we don’t go together.”
The Instagram model, who doesn’t like to eat a meal before sex because it makes her “self-conscious and tired,” also doesn’t worry about a man’s genital size or his wealth status, just whether they’re nice and fun to be around.
In the meantime, she doesn’t care about what people think of her and is committed to other women embracing her sexuality.
Kazumi also attends sex clubs and orgies from time to time and likes to enjoy her sexual escapades.
She has a few conversations with her men before meeting them, but Kazumi suggested that explaining the purpose of their date can help both people feel more comfortable.
“Personally, I talk to people quite a bit before I meet because I’ve already generated interest and why I like them,” Kazumi revealed. “If I didn’t do it, I wouldn’t go ahead and date them, and I feel like people act more like themselves after sex.
“I feel like having sex with people a few times before we go on a real date,” she added. “If he doesn’t respect you after sex, he probably didn’t respect you before either.”
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