A WOMAN has become furious after her fiancé invites his mother to their honeymoon.
The bride-to-be was shocked when her fiancé asked his mother to join them without asking her first while driving his mother back from the shops.
The woman expected a traditional honeymoon, during which the newlyweds will spend quality one-on-one time together, far from the stress and responsibilities of everyday life.
The 22-year-old took to Reddit and revealed that she was getting married in four months.
She said the couple planned and organized everything together for their special day.
The woman wrote: “First off, a few months ago he said he wanted to turn our honeymoon into a family vacation so his parents and my mother could get to know each other better. I agreed, so we researched where and how to go.”
But just weeks later, her fiancé changed his mind on the matter, explaining that he didn’t want to bring his family as his relationship with them was “kind of rough”.
Once again she agreed to the plan and they began planning a honeymoon for two.
But this wasn’t the last time her fiancé would call off their honeymoon plans.
She revealed: “Everything was going well until a few days ago when I went shopping with my future mother-in-law.
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“On the way home, my boyfriend asked her if she wanted to join our honeymoon.
“I was shocked and angry, but I remained silent”.
When they dropped his mother off, she asked why, since no one in her family was going to honeymoon.
He told her it was fine and they would just go with his side of the family.
But still not happy, she sent her fiancé a message letting him know how she was feeling.
Instead of apologizing for making plans without her and ruining their honeymoon, he shockingly turned around and told her she was “making a big deal out of something that’s not that important.”
Now she says she feels guilty “because she made a fuss about something small.”
She stated she wasn’t upset about the change of plans, but was upset that he didn’t talk to her first.
She hinted that this isn’t the first time this has happened to the couple’s wedding plans.
Reddit users were quick to tell her not to feel guilty, with one writing, “Someone who makes all decisions without involving you is not a nice man and thinks of himself and not you and your needs and desires.”
“It’s just so annoying and a bit of a red flag if I’m being honest. He forces you into situations you don’t want to be in and takes advantage of the fact that you can’t make a scene in the public domain.” Added by other user.
A third said: “It’s no small mistake. A small mistake is ‘he goes to the bathroom and leaves the door open’, not ‘he makes a lot of decisions on his own or changes decisions we made together without asking me’. This is a big mistake and would be a serious problem for most people.”
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