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I didn’t invite my stepfather from my wedding so my brothers would come

A BRIDE-TO-BE was in a very awkward situation just weeks before her big day, after her two brothers refused to come if their stepfather was there.

The woman, 25, and her brothers, 30, were going through a tough time when their parents divorced, and when their mother remarried, the brothers wanted nothing to do with her husband. that.

A bride decided not to invite her stepfather out of her weeding job, even though he was paying for it.

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A bride decided not to invite her stepfather out of her weeding job, even though he was paying for it.Credit: Getty

However, the bride lived with her mother and husband and during that time, they established a good relationship.

The bride-to-be is brought in Reddit’s AITA Forum to explain her story.

She said: “My stepfather did what he could to help me with school and everything, he even offered to sponsor my wedding which is going to be in five weeks and I am so grateful. for that even though this is his decision.”

“I sent invitations to Dean and Kevin but when they found out that our stepfather was going there, they said they probably wouldn’t.

“They took their time and gave them an ultimatum saying that if our stepfather came, they wouldn’t come.

“I was really freaked out because I definitely wanted my brothers to be at my wedding and I tried to talk to them but they were stubborn.”

The bride discussed the matter with her fiance and came to the conclusion that she had no choice but to “politely refuse” her stepfather.

So she decided to tell him the news via email.

She continued: “Then I got a call from my mom scolding me, calling me a pain in the ass saying that I had acted like an ungrateful by excluding her husband from the wedding after all. everything he did for me.

“I told her that my brothers threatened not to come, which prompted me to make this difficult decision because if it were for me, I would have everyone there.

“She ripped me off for prioritizing my cold and obnoxious brothers over my stepfather and showing him that I was unworthy of his grace, which really broke my heart to hear. that.”

The woman then questioned whether she made the wrong decision to side with her brothers and not invite her stepfather.

A whopping 2.5k Reddit users joined the comments to express how they feel about the situation, and it’s safe to say they think the woman was wrong to uninviting her stepfather. .

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One said: “Your stepdaughter is clearly interested in you and is PAYING for your wedding. He is not the problem here. Your brothers are childish and are the ones you just can’t get along to be at their sister’s wedding without being petty kids about it. “

Another added: “You should invite your uncle back and let your brothers know that they are still welcome after that but if they don’t come, they are solely responsible for themselves.”

A third commented: “Unless there’s more to this than eye contact, they seem to have no legitimate reason to hate your stepfather other than the fact that he’s not your real dad. . He’s been nice to you, and I’m not surprised your mother is angry. I can’t imagine the pain your stepfather must feel right now. “

The bride was left in the awkward situation she was in

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The bride was left in the awkward situation she was inCredit: Getty

Meanwhile, my sister-in-law won’t have my husband at her wedding because he’s MISSED – she doesn’t want ‘the attention from her’.

Also, I asked my brother £20,000 for my wedding but he refused and now I won’t take his calls, young bride says.

Bridezilla didn’t get a refund for her dress so she went to try it on in the store instead, but it didn’t end well.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/17332315/uninvited-stepdad-from-wedding-hes-still-paying-for-it/ I didn’t invite my stepfather from my wedding so my brothers would come

Bobby Allyn

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