Do you have a burning desire for something or someone in the bedroom?
You’re not alone.
Two-thirds of couples have a secret list of naughty things they want to try, research shows.
While women prefer to recreate a movie or TV sex scene, guys want to be left out with a celebrity crush. Other top wishes include a dirty weekend and sex with a stranger, according to the affair site illicitencounters.com.
From tantric attempts to bonding to bondage, The Sun’s sexpert reveals how to explore it all five of the top fantasies sensual – and sure.
TOP FIVE FOR WOMEN – RE-ACT YOUR FAVORITE SCREEN SEX MOMENTS
OVER half of us have re-enacted our favorite sex scene from a TV show, movie or book.
If you like the passionate kissing in the rain scene in between Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams in The Notebook, then shower with your partner in a t-shirt and underwear while the film’s soundtrack plays in the background.
Or when Bridgeton leaves you hot under the collar, invest in a sexy corset to get in character.
TV beauty Danielle Lloyd, 38, bought several sets to recreate ALL the hot scenes with her husband, electrician Michael O’Neill.
SEX ON A PARADISE BEACH
YOU don’t have to fly abroad to really hit the gas with your partner, as forecasters claim We could see highs of 28C next month.
Do your research and find a secluded spot on the beach away from prying eyes and children.
Don’t go at peak times, choose a day of the week that’s quieter.
Add to the romance by having a picnic with foods that get you in the mood.
Not only is it extremely erotic to seductively feed your partner strawberries dipped in chocolate, but the fruit is rich in vitamin C, which improves blood circulation and increases testosterone, increasing your chances of orgasm.
MULTIPLE ORGASMS IN ONE SESSION
There are four X-rated sex moves scientifically proven to be just the thing.
Fishing – no, not fishing – is a technique in which the woman rotates, raises or lowers her pelvis during sex.
Rocking is where the girl is on top and grinding back and forth, while shallowing is a move that controls the depth of penetration.
More than 75 percent of women don’t orgasm from penetrative sex alone, so add a helping hand or sex toy — a technique called pairing.
Why not try all four together to achieve a four-gasm?
TRYING TANTRIC SEX
tantra is a great way to increase tension and intimacy and connect with your partner on a deeper level to enjoy better and longer orgasms.
A few times a week, ditch your pajamas and practice tantra in bed with your significant other for ten minutes before bed.
Slowly explore each other’s naked bodies with your hands and synchronize your breathing, but RESIST the intercourse.
While it may be difficult, this will help build desire and arousal in the long run.
BONDAGE SESSION WITH BLINDLOCKS AND HANDCUFFS
DECIDE who will be the “Dom” and who will be the “Sub”.
If you are the one in control, cover your lover’s eyes with a sexy blindfold to start. Taking away their vision will drive their other senses wild.
Until you learn the ropes, handcuffs are the safest way to restrain or restrain your partner.
Use comfy furry ones rather than metal ones to start with so they don’t burrow.
Use the traffic light code to share what you like and don’t like. Green for yes, yellow for maybe and red for no.
Check Out Furry Handcuffs, £9.99 lovehoney.co.uk.
TOP FIVE FOR MEN – SEX WITH YOUR FAVORITE CELEBRITIES
YOU don’t have to get naughty with a star to get A-lister action between the sheets.
Buy your partner an outfit that best resembles your celebrity crush and experiment with some fun role play.
If Kim Kardashian turns you on, take your partner shopping to buy a sexy latex bodysuit loved by the reality TV star.
Check Out Captivating Cami Suspenders, £35 annsummers.com.
KINKY apps like Feeld or 3Somer have made it easier than ever to have a threesome.
But if your partner isn’t ready to invite a stranger into your bed, there are clever ways you can fake a threesome by opening up your personal space.
Having sex in front of the window with the curtains open is a great way to get turned on by the thought that someone else is watching.
You can also watch a naughty porn movie together or add a smart sex toy to your session that works by itself without either of you holding it.
Check out the We-Vibe X remote controlled vibrator, £99.99 lovehoney.co.uk.
SEX WITH AN AMAZING STRANGER I SEE EVERY DAY
It’s normal to fantasize about other people, and it doesn’t necessarily mean there’s anything wrong in your relationship.
More than 80 percent of women and 98 percent of men admit to thinking about someone other than their partner in bed, so don’t beat yourself up if you’re having these fantasies.
Instead, start roleplaying with your partner who you just met and pretend you’re strangers meeting for the first time in a bar.
After a few drinks, imagine that you “book into a cheap hotel” for a wild night of passion to make it feel more like a naughty one night stand.
AGAIN SEX WITH MY FIRST LOVE
It’s easy to remember our younger, carefree days, but remember that sex with an ex will probably never be as good as you remember.
Focus on your current partner and think back to those early, heady days when you couldn’t keep your hands off each other.
Bring those memories to life by recreating your first date.
Studies show that women who are in love are more likely to be in the mood.
Take her to the first restaurant you went to together and surprise her with a memory book of your favorite pictures to rekindle those lusty feelings.
WOMEN are more likely to feel sexy and aroused when their surroundings are calm and uncluttered, research shows.
So pack the kids with the grandparents and take your partner away for a dirty weekend. . . At home.
Clean up the house and roll out the red carpet for her. First, treat them to a home-cooked meal with a bottle of sparkling wine and book them in for an at-home “spa” treatment.
Run a romantic bubble bath, then indulge her with a sensual massage using a massage candle to energize her. Try the Oh! Vanilla Massage Candle, £6.99, lovehoney.co.uk.
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